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There is certainly a lot of truth in this

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of profession, money or a healthy sex life. Men are often stumped and taken totally unawares when their wives serve divorce papers on them.Women are More Attached to ChildrenIt is a widely held belief that mothers and children bond much better with each other compared to the relationship the latter establish with their fathers. There is certainly a lot of truth in this. Women go through a long period of pregnancy before giving birth. They feel more connected with the kids and consider them a part of them and an extension of their own selves.Children too establish a close emotional relationship with mothers as soon as they are born. They breast-feed for months and look up to moms for physical security. They panic if they are unable to be with their mother even for a moment.There is no way a father can rival the mother in terms of intimacy and closeness to the children. Women can influence kids any way they want and contribute a lot to shaping their personalities in a particular way. However, just because nature intended mothers and children to share a very strong and close bond does not mean that fathers by definition do not care about the latter as much as mothers do.Most men are usually quite emotional. They have the same feelings of tenderness and affection toward children as women but they do not show their emotions in front Mens MBT Voi Shoes Sale
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